What’s Your Spot?

What’s your spot? 

If you didn’t have a favorite before this season stuck you at home, you probably do now.

Mine is a rug. In our bathroom.

It seems silly and, sticking with the theme of this season, maybe not the most sanitized. But it brings me peace.

I sit on the rug in front of my bathroom sink, turn on a little space heater we keep (because I’m always cold), and I read or write or pray.

Or, I just sit.

The noise from the heater drowns out distractions. The actual heat makes me cozy.

My spot.

It’s a familiar feeling.

Pneumonia invaded my lungs twice during my third-grade year.  My pediatrician ordered allergy tests. The list was long of grasses and trees (proof that God made me for the indoors) I was allergic to. Cats and cigarette smoke were severe triggers. I also tested allergic to dust.

My housekeeping would indicate I have outgrown that allergy.

The doctor suspected dust mites may have accumulated in my 1970s-era blue-green shag carpet, and recommended mom and daddy remove it.

Also, yuk.

We stripped my Strawberry Shortcake scheme and replaced it with décor covered in primary-colored hearts.

I loved my room.

Mom chose a white linoleum floor. She bought throw rugs to cozy it up.

Mom laundered the rugs each Saturday and returned them to my room before bedtime.  I would sit on the floor and soak up the fresh-from-the-dryer warmth of my rug.

That memory returned one night as I sat on the rug in my bathroom floor. My spot.

A significant spot in 1 Samuel has a new hold on my heart.

It’s called Ebenezer.

Ebenezer translates “stone of help.” It is a stone laid by Samuel to remind the Israelites of how God helped them. An altar. (Full story in 1 Samuel chapters 4-7)

Until recent years, I knew Ebenezer only from the hymn “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.”  (And also as Scrooge from Disney’s “A Christmas Carol.” But I digress.)

The second stanza of “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing” begins:

            “Here I raise mine Ebenezer
            Hither by Thy help I’ve come…”

The author, Robert Robinson, wrote those words in reference to 1 Samuel to remember where his blessings came. His “stone of help.”

Hymns are special to me because they return me to a sacred spot- the church where I grew up.

I visited Bayview Baptist Church, alone, at the beginning of our Coronavirus quarantine. Filled with uncertainty, I felt a tug towards my faith roots.

I sat for a long time in our old family pew. I knelt at the altar. I walked to the pulpit and saw a hymnal on top. It was opened to the song “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.”

The hymnal as I found it on the pulpit at my childhood church.

The version placed on the pulpit does not use the word “Ebenezer.” It didn’t matter because I knew the words. I knew them in my heart.

I cried.

God speaks to me in my spots. Sure, He can speak to me anywhere. But I believe connection is clear and deep when I “raise mine Ebenezer” and return (if only in my mind) to the places where He’s helped me before:

Bayview Baptist Church
The Baptist Campus Ministry at Troy State
Shocco Springs Baptist Conference Center
A mountain stream in Lake Placid, New York
An office at Creekside Elementary School

And my bathroom rug.

I sacrificed my spot while Jeff was deployed. I couldn’t drown out distractions even if I tried. I also needed to hear my kids in case they needed me. 

Now that he’s returned home, I can return to my spot.

My silly, semi-sanitized spot. It brings me peace.

What’s your spot?

“Then Samuel took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen. He named it Ebenezer, saying, “Thus far the LORD has helped us.”

(1 Samuel 7:12)